Tuesday, July 29, 2008

I don't need no one to tell me about heaven,
I look at my husband and our son, and I believe....
I don't need proof when it comes to God and truth,
I can see the sunset and I perceive...
Wanita sebagai penolong

Menolong artinya menyediakan apa yang kurang, memberikan apapun yang diperlukan untuk menyelesaikan suatu pekerjaan. Ada beberapa kualitas yang harus dimiliki oleh seorang penolong agar ia dapat berfungsi secara maksimal:
1.Penundukan diri yang benar. Pria membutuhkan waktu dan proses untuk menjadi seorang pemimpin, ia belajar menjadi pemimpin mulai dari memimpin istrinya. Jika istrinya tidak bersedia dipimpin, maka suami tidak akan bertumbuh dalam kepemimpinannya.
2.Membangun. Seorang penolong harus menggunakan kekuatan pengaruhnya untuk membangun pria, baik melalui sikap, tindakan maupun perkataan.
3.Berinisiatif. Kita harus berinisiatif bagaimana caranya agar orang lain benar-benar merasa ditolong, dan memastikan apakah pertolongan kita sesuai dengan yang diharapkan.
4.Kreatif. Kita membutuhkan kasih karunia dan kreatifitas dari Allah yang adalah sumber kreatifitas (Yak 1:5-6) untuk menjalankan peran kita sebagai penolong.
5.Belajar kepada Allah. Allah memberikan segala potensi, kekuatan dan kemampuan yang kita butuhkan untuk menjalankanperan kita sebagai penolong. Bersandarlah kepada-Nya, maka kita pasti dimampukan untuk melakukannya dengan baik.

Dear LORD, help me to be a godly woman to YOU, to my husband and family. Be glorified YOUR name through our life and attitude.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008


Loyal and Kindness
by Ps. Jose Carol

Never let loyalty and kindness get away from you! Wear them like a necklace; write them deep within your heart. Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will gain a good reputation. Proverbs 3:3-4 (NLT)

Loyalty and kindness is like a precious jewelry, priceless but often despised in today's world. No matter where we are; school, work or even marriage, often deceit and cunningness are more favorable than loyalty and kindness. Many people think that deceit brings prompt advantages and does not have any consequences in their lives. It is a lie far from the truth of God.

Proverbs teaches us that loyalty (including honesty) and kindness must be put around our neck and become a radiating values that will attract other people to us. Besides draping the two values around our neck, Proverbs also teaches us to write them in our hearts. This means making the two values an inseparable part our lives, because they really show who we really are.

I am not surprised to see your lives crossing God's goodness and favor from men poured into your life. And there's also a good reputation in stored for your future.
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Blessing : Dear Lord, I am blessed that YOU grant Obby as my husband. I pray so that me and my husband to have loyal and kindness as YOUR word said. Let it be in our hearts and we grow in YOUR words so that our marriage will give godly influence to our surroundings and YOUR name shall be glorified. Amen.

Sunday, July 20, 2008


Yang paling indah dalam perkawinan adalah jatuh cinta lagi, lagi, lagi lagi...dan lagi, pada kamu. Love you pa, and I miss you so muuuuuchhhhh....

(sms to my beloved husband, monday, 21 july 2008, when he's on far away places, and I miss him already)

Wednesday, July 16, 2008


5 Reasons Why God Uses Problems
Hope this article will bless you as much as it does to us

The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you - depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately, most people fail to see how God wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring.
Here are five ways God wants to use the problems in your life:
1.God Uses Problems To DIRECT U
Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is God trying to get your attention? "Sometimes it takes
a painful situation to make us change our ways."

2. God Uses Problems To INSPECT U
People are like tea bags...if you want to know what's inside them, just drop them into hot ever water! Has God tested your faith with a problem What do problems reveal about you?
"When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience."

3. God Uses Problems To CORRECT U
Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It's likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove. But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something... health, money, a relationship. .. by losing it. "It was the best thing that could have happened to me, for it taught me to pay attention to your laws."

4. God Uses Problems To PROTECT U
A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious. Last year a friend was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss
had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem - but it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year later when management's actions were eventually discovered. "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good...

5. God Uses Problems To PERFECT U
Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders. God is far more interested in your character than your comfort. Your relationship to God and your character are the only two
things you're going to take with you into eternity. "We can rejoice when we run into problems... they help us learn to be patient. And patience develops strength of character in us and helps us trust God more each time we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady."

Here's the point Ad:
God is at work in your life - even when you do not recognize it or understand it. But it's much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him.

"Success can be measured not only in achievements, but in lessons learned, lives touched and moments shared along the way"

Tuesday, July 15, 2008


To our beloved son...

Son, we're here, we cannot protect you from the world
Son, we're here, we can only love you no matter what
Son, we're here, our love unconditional on this you can rely
Son, we're here, to guide and to teach you and now you must fly
Son, we're here, life can be difficult we hear your cry
Son, we're here, Changes are painful never forget who you are
Son, we're here, Maintain the faith in yourself and in God
Son, we're here, Self acceptance is yours do not fear
Son, we're here... and GOD always be with you...

Monday, July 14, 2008




I don't marry someone I can live with - I marry the person who I cannot live without....


To my husband, thank you for sharing me so much joy, love and taught me so many things about life... GOD bless our marriage to be an inspiration for other...


"Let your light so shine before men that they may see your moral excellence and your praiseworthy, noble, and good deeds and recognize and honor and praise and glorify your Father Who is in heaven." Mat 5:16


Try not to become a man of success but a man of value-Albert Einstein

This quote is soooooooo her. Naz, a good person, friend, partner in crime (hehehe), wife, and the most important is a good mother. She's one of the person who eager about life and person who celebrate life because of its beauty. She had transformed herself into a valuable person instead of celebrity...but her kindness, generosity have promotes her as a well-known person with an exquisite-heart.

Keep on making the foot step on the sand of history yah Naz!


Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction - Antoine de Saint-

I learn that I am so much blessed by GOD through what he HE has grants me. I learn that things happen for a spiritual purpose. So many things in life that I dont know before but HE opened the eyes of heart and explains so many things...that I come to the conclusion, GOD is good.

HE has sent 2 special person in my life : husband and son. They are my angels and spirit towards life. LORD, thanks for opening my heart that I am valuable and deserve to receive these two precious treasure.

thank you LORD